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Chelsea Ochs's avatar

as a parent of a child, I have been trying to be transparent with her about my own endeavors to notice when my internet use is supporting me or when it is going beyond my ability to metabolize or integrate anything in intaking. it's an ebb and flow, I want to help model that for her rather than just cutting her off from the process of learning that herself by policing her internet use. policing doesn't get us anywhere, and I think the lawmaking route doesn't really empower people to learn about thier own nervous systems thru trial and error

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Cody N.'s avatar

Fantastic, as always!

I had a visceral reaction to the chapter in Karderas's book on "The Sociogenic Trans Effect." I suppose the groundwork has always been there to merge the "technology is harming the youth" camp and the "kids are being convinced they're trans" camp, but it terrifies me. I see the former being a pathway into the latter for those who don't know any better, because the former has widespread appeal and also some truth to it. I think of my dad, who is a smart, progressive person but also a fan of Huberman and Dopamine Nation because he's kind of an optimize bro - I could absolutely see him reading that book and not completely dismissing that chapter, although I'd hope he would be skeptical because he knows me (I'm trans) and has had to learn about trans people long before the most recent "trans panic."

Also for some reason Substack app isn't letting me copy text but there was a line at footnote 2 that I thought was so so wonderful, where you essentially explained the rise in mental health problems as a function of a bunch of wicked problems, etc. I want to memorize it so I can quote it constantly. I cringe when people bring up the "mental health epidemic" or talk about how "we need better mental health care" - people tend to think individuals are just more broken and if we could just get everyone into therapy, all would be well. As a therapist, I would argue that's not true. MOST of the things that are harming people I can do nothing about, other than sit with them in their pain. Would it be great if everyone could access therapy? Absolutely. But it would not solve the "mental health epidemic."

Also, I would totally read a summary of that dumb book because I can't hate read things (too stressful) and know thine enemy etc. and genuinely I'd read anything you wanted to write on the subject!

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