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Emma's avatar

Thank you Jess. Your articulation of the cultural prison we inhabit is exquisite, poignant, and opens my eyes to the way out. <3

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onewheelscooter's avatar

"But I refuse to feel bad about these things or call them disordered. The problem is society’s rigid, narrow rules for what is an acceptable way to be a person, not the fact that I fall outside of them." - this would sit fine with me apart from the fact I am responsible for other people (my children) and regularly fail them and make their lives worse due to my lack of executive function. maybe I'm hypersensitive at the moment (recently diagnosed with ADHD after a lifetime of feeling lazy and stupid) but your definition seems to minimise the struggles that we face by defining them as just our unhealthy internalising of an unrealistic societal standard – i.e. something that is our responsibility to change.

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